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Brandon Sommerville
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On Mon, 08 Dec 2003 01:08:22 GMT, "David J. Allen"
<dallen03NO_SPAM@sanNO_SPAM.rr.com> wrote:
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>"Brandon Sommerville" <[email protected]> wrote in message
>news:[email protected]...
>> So since step parents can be harmful to the family unit should we
>> disallow re-marriage?
>
>There are times that I might just think so. I have friends inwhich the
>father left and now the mom is involved with a guy that is really a jerk
>(she doesn't see it... she's so worried about being alone) and her kids all
>hate this guy. It looks like she's going to marry him any way. Makes me
>think there ought to be a law.
Would it have been better had the father been forced to stay?
>There was a time, pre- no fault divorce, that getting a divorce wasn't easy.
How do you prove emotional abuse?
>There had to be justification. Our value shifts going away from traditional
>values has made that a quaint thing of the past. Again, my point of view is
>based on the principles of marriage and family being good and the right
>thing for society. The trend is toward what's good and fair for the
>individual based on a civil rights approach. That will never be constrained
>to just gay marriage.
Having seen enough couples where one of the members was abusive, I'm
glad that people are no longer forced to stay together if they don't
want to.
It's interesting that you suggest that marriage not be about what you
can get for yourself. How many times have you heard women say that
they will only marry a guy who makes at least X amount of money? Or
guys who marry a woman based on how she looks?
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Brandon Sommerville
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<dallen03NO_SPAM@sanNO_SPAM.rr.com> wrote:
>
>"Brandon Sommerville" <[email protected]> wrote in message
>news:[email protected]...
>> So since step parents can be harmful to the family unit should we
>> disallow re-marriage?
>
>There are times that I might just think so. I have friends inwhich the
>father left and now the mom is involved with a guy that is really a jerk
>(she doesn't see it... she's so worried about being alone) and her kids all
>hate this guy. It looks like she's going to marry him any way. Makes me
>think there ought to be a law.
Would it have been better had the father been forced to stay?
>There was a time, pre- no fault divorce, that getting a divorce wasn't easy.
How do you prove emotional abuse?
>There had to be justification. Our value shifts going away from traditional
>values has made that a quaint thing of the past. Again, my point of view is
>based on the principles of marriage and family being good and the right
>thing for society. The trend is toward what's good and fair for the
>individual based on a civil rights approach. That will never be constrained
>to just gay marriage.
Having seen enough couples where one of the members was abusive, I'm
glad that people are no longer forced to stay together if they don't
want to.
It's interesting that you suggest that marriage not be about what you
can get for yourself. How many times have you heard women say that
they will only marry a guy who makes at least X amount of money? Or
guys who marry a woman based on how she looks?
--
Brandon Sommerville
remove ".gov" to e-mail
Definition of "Lottery":
Millions of stupid people contributing
to make one stupid person look smart.