Firstly Sue - I have no idea why you are even involved in this - I PMd sarah a while back - and explained exactly what was meant - pls let her deal with her hurt not you.
AS I previously read - YOU have interpreted what I said in the way YOU chose to - I have explained exactly what I meant by it - not in any way a slight or a dig - you chose to see that as dishing it out and therefor deserving of getting some back - fine - it was not the case but you may believe what you like
Unfortunately 110, judging by the PMs I have received, I was not the only person to put that interpretation on it.
I take on board that you believe I should mind my own business and not defend someone who I now consider a friend.
I do consider myself to be involved, I got Sarah into this in the first place.
If you have apologised to Sarah I dont see any need to continue this.