Should have done it sooner.When I suggest leaving Benfleet and off out to Cambs or Suffolk to her good self it is met with a very negative critique.
1. Not even thinkable till her Mum passes.
Its only a little drive? 1hr and a bit?2. She doesn't want to move away from her grandkids.
Nope.3. Nice quiet country places have poor healthcare access and little local shopping.
Planning it soon?4. She doesn't want to be stuck in an alien place when I pop my clogs.
We moved here when our Parents were healthy, my parents moved us to Suffolk when Mums parents where still healthy. Didnt stop us (3kids) from seeing Nanny.
I can not fault the healthcare they get where they are.
Rock and a hard place right now for you.
J