That's good timing as I've recently started fitting my new suspension all round...though I'm sure the replies will come in quite varied. Like yours, mine is to be used mainly for road use with the odd off road detour and generally no serious off-roading. I thought long as to the final spec' and was helped with some great advice from our LZ forum friends. I also wanted to 'toughen up' the front end without the need for anti-roll bars as wanted to keep the original 'feel' of the 90. My final spec' is as follows with std ride height:
Standard Springs Front & Rear
TerraFirma Std Dampers
New std code G bushes all round [I chose std as did not want to increase any NVH]
Gwyn Lewis HD Drop Arm Conversion Kit & Track Rod Bar
https://gwynlewis4x4.co.uk/product/defender-drop-arm-conversion-kit-track-rod-bar-hd-steel/
Std Panhard Rod but with PolyBushes [panhard rods really benefit from +Ve location]
OME front steering damper [after much reading and taking ref' this was the obvious choice]
and for added surety I've used the following Gwyn Lewis mounting hardware
https://gwynlewis4x4.co.uk/product/four-galvanised-spring-seats-defender-90-disco1-rrc/
https://gwynlewis4x4.co.uk/product/heavy-duty-front-turret-securing-rings/
https://gwynlewis4x4.co.uk/product/std-height-hd-front-turrets-inc-re-locator/