Well I hope you're right.That's not a risk IMO ... i've never seen a BCU "killed" by an IDM cos then both should have been at fault... if the IDM triggers the crossed B replacing it should fix things and same for the BCU... did you check the data link and it's OK?... also what's the symptom beside the B? it doesnt crank like the OP's in this thread or what?
The data link is fine, as are the two obvious black ground cables to BCU and IDM; are there any others? I'm trying to work out which are the power feeds and how to test those.
Symptoms are six bongs on ignition II, crossed B in display, no crank. Also no central locking, no automatic interior lights, no electric windows.