Ok I will go through this to the best of my knowledge.
Right so we have good connections.
You are not in lockout mode yet, your car is alarmed and thinks its getting nicked.
Yep and it often doesnt make sense
fob?
Yes I understand the EKA code required. that is still not the end of the world, and you are not there yet.
I totally understand your frustration, but slow down a bit.
A Nanocom will not communicate if the car is in alarmed/lockout state, (this is a debatable subject as I dont have a Nanocom, and seperate from this thread so dont claim to know).
But if you cant see coms with it you cant do anything with it.
Your car sees it open, its just disabled for starting cos it thinks its getting nicked.
Do you have 2 fobs?
J