Dids said:
I should have been a bit clearer, the threats that concerned me weren't coming from you (no offence). It was post 332 that particularly turned my stomach. I don't think my wife and 2 small children would want to have seen it either. In the grand scheme of things it was wholly inappropriate. I hope you see my point. I PM'd you so you saw this first, but feel free to post this in the thread. At most I took the rise, but that was disgusting.
I appreciate your concerns, one of the important things to remember is
1) Statistically people on forums make suggestions of this that and the other and will pay you a visit- 99.9% the are all mouth and no trousers.
2) People can find it hard to not reply when it's getting to them, replying when a fire is raging merely feeds the situation.
3)Someone says on the INTERNET that they are going to **** your wife=laugh it off as the joke it is, someone said it to your face=burial.