UPDATE: Conversations with the dealer continued long into the small hours via text message, though I did refuse to answer his telephone call at 1.40am!!
I have thrown everything I have at him (in a very professional, polite manner). I have refused him any 'evidence' of all that he has requested so as he is on the back foot if this ends up going to court (which i have no issue with doing, simply out of principle. Call me stubborn if you will
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Needless to say his emotions where a little erratic, Initially he spat his dummy out, saying "take me to court blah blah blah"... I continued with my 'professional' tone and forwarded him my consumer rights etc. Then he tried the softly softly approach making a deep emotional plea that "he works full time and doesn't need the money from selling cars' and that 'buying and selling cars is a hobby that has a business name' (boo hoo)
He wanted to offer me a suggestion 'informally' by phone call, I kindly declined and said I would be happy to consider his suggestion by text message so that we both have a record of it.
His suggestion was to either; collect the car, get the work done and flog it on my behalf... or... he has another couple of cars to sell next week and can refund me when they have sold.
So, I have agreed that he has 30 days from yesterday to collect the car from me and refund my money in full. (only realising last night it is the dealers responsibility to collect the car, bonus!)
Legally, I now know I am unable to use the car which has left me in a creek without a paddle but once again my stubbornness precedes me and i'm hoping I can call on some favours for getting around while i'm waiting for the refund.
I have parked the car up and taken photos of every inch I can including odometer reading. Ill see if i can attach some pics of the rusty bits (that actually look worse today than they did when I collected the car, think I may have 'lost' some more rusty metal driving it!