Hi mate - yes the wobble is the flange being able to move side to side - even with a new bearing in. I noted that the flange was wobbly until I put all the way onto the output - it looks a little worn inside but I am not expert. The output shaft was a problem but I reckon it was caused by the unusual stresses presented by having a prop angle at the diff being totally straight and sharp at the t box - I was using a wide angled prop.
Castor correction bushes are fitted which definitely have made the t box angle sharper but the steering much better. Apparently only a double carden will do the business for this situation. That said it is only a 2 inch lift. I fitted a double carden and it ****ed the t box end UJ grease all round the chassis legs and gearbox on the first run of 2 miles!!!!!!! (This didn't even happen with the wide angle prop). I noted the UJ was gone - after one drive!!!!!! Perhaps it was gone already - I did note that the ball action was stiff and locked it in position around the extremity of it's own action - ie I had to 'snap' it back into position - I was told by the supplier this was normal and would soften up. This is a highly rated supplier.
Took the double C off last night and stuck her in diff lock - and most of the vibration is gone. Much smoother to drive despite the diff lock. The vibration is occurrent at different speeds in different gears but 30mph and 55 mph are the main ones.
A mechanic has measured all the alignments eg gearbox, engine, etc and says they are down to the MM and degree from the book.
So VIBRATION is the cause of things going bad, or VIBRATION is a symptom. If one thing screws up, it screws other bits up and then it's hard to pinpoint a cause.
I checked the front wheels and they free wheel fine in neutral and the front diff has no unusual play.
Other helpful info - the engine is a retro fitted Disco 300tdi in my Defender 90. All standard bits. Disco chassis mounts welded onto legs in new position. I get a bit of kickback in the gearstick when switching her off after a drive. I used to get kickback through the clutch pedal when turning her off - which is a mystery but must be mechanical - this disappeared after the castor corrrection bushes were fitted.
Is it possible the ENGINE could be the vibration culprit? Eg the flywheel - I got a new clutch and heavy duty fork, but not flywheel that I can recall. It's a wee bit noisy in the morning with the clutch out - press it in and the noise goes away. Look at this link -
TD5 flywheel inspection - LR4x4 - The Land Rover Forum
All this for a crappy wee 2 inch lift. It beggars belief!