Both sets of bolts were good quality. It just seemed the MLS gasket compresses more than the elastomer one after the initial 20Nm
The elastopolymer gasket has compression limiters to prevent over compression. Maybe the MLS gasket doesn't. Or maybe the MLS needs a higher initial pre-load to compress the gasket, before the angular torque is applied. The difference between un-stretched bolts and those at fitted stretch is less than 1.5mm.