I think the meaning of PM is Private Message, so which bit of private message don't you understand.
as i said i dont have a prob with p.ms but when someone asks things not to be shared with the rest of the forum it makes them look suspicious even though they may not be. as i also said the contents of the p.m could quite easily have been put on the bottom of the thread for a couple of days or even a day so that people who might have been looking at the thread would understand its removal. were supposed to be a group here so why feel the need to hide it. as i said we are grown ups and none of us want to see harm come to the forum but the mods should have a bit more faith in us as members.