You probably have either a bored 3.5 or a 3.9 with a 3.5 intake system. The correct plug from a known brand, like NGK, Champion or Bosch will all do the trick. The NGK should be BP5HS, I think, but double check before buying.
Now, to your idle issue and lack of grunt: I hate to point out the bleeding obvious, but do you know there's fuel in the tank? I'm asking because you stated that very question yourself, and it seems it has yet to be answered. Also, the fact that it ran just fine before you bought it, points to something simple like that. Your fuel pump should definitely slow down once the carbs are full, so you're either low on fuel, have a faulty regulator or a blockage. If your carbs weren't shutting off when the chambers are full, I wouldn't expect the engine to run at all - it would be badly flooded. Your description of the small trickle of fuel you get when you pull the hose off, again points to low fuel or blockage. If the car has seen very little or no use, driving it may have upset sediments in the tank which have now clogged your filter. Advice: Make sure there's fuel in the tank. If there is, find your fuel pump, pull the hose off it and switch on ignition (catch the fuel in a container). Is the flow any better at this point? If it is, work your way through the system and find your blockage. If it's not, pull your fuel pump and test it on the bench. If it's no better there, find a replacement.
Good luck!