Accy, I didn't think your PM was either impolite or condescending. I did say fair enough, I did agree that at times it gets a bit much in here, though I wouldn't dream of complaining to the mod's about it.
As Yella said, it usually dies down again pretty quickly. Sometimes the language gets a bit harsh, sometimes people take a bit of stick. Usually it's good natured, often it's deserved. But, LZ remains far less cliquey & more freindly than any other forum I've subscribed to about any subject and most of the time is bluddy hilarious.
It doesn't surprise me in the least that our posts being changed has prompted the possibly churlish but still quite amusing " we bin' tol' off" reaction it's received. Don't take it personally, it was bound to be discussed on the forum & with the usual sarcastic/ironic twist most things receive. To me, that's part of what makes LZ different, worthwhile & fun.
I haven't responded to your PM by coming on & swearing like a navvy to prove some pedantic point, I have made slightly sarky reference to it, but I thought it was good natured & in the spirit of LZ in general.
Sometimes the subject matter in here get's a bit strong even for me. If it does, I don't take part in that particular fred & as said, it burns itself out fairly quickly. Sometimes I post things that I look back on & think "you "drink that's served on Trans World Airlines, usually produced in India or China", what did you write that for?" & then resolve not to post stuff again when I've had a shandy or two..........until the next time! It happens.
I do just think it's bluddy sad if because of all this someone as amusing, valued and as helpful as Sheddy leaves.
Where do you draw the line. The word "****" is apparently offensive, "tool" is OK & as was stated your signature contains the word "tits" & if push came to shove could be seen as borderline mysogeny!
Dunno, it's a minefield, can of worms, whatever! I'm not going anywhere, I hope Sheddy doesn't & hope everyone else will stick around too. I think you & Roy do a bluddy brilliant job & provide somewhere we can all get any Landy question answered (often with an added portion of scorn & derision, bonus, it makes it fun to read) & have a laugh together, usually at eachothers expense. It's how it is & it's why it works.
That's my two pennorth.