I'd second CharlesY's response, is it remotely possible that what you're seeing is just loss through overfilling in the first place?
Is this a new problem or has it always done it?
At the end of the day, if it really is 'using' the water then it must be going somewhere and there will be evidence of that usage, either in the exhaust, or on the ground or swilling around somewhere else.
Does the fluid level drop while idling? Are you absolutely sure it's not coming out somewhere within the engine bay?