Me and my girlfriend are currently sitting in a fire engine looking at the total wreck that was once my p38
Pleased you're both OK-as above cars can be replaced. Be positive=you don't need to do the rad or o rings now! You always wanted a different colour anyway.
Bet your next one will have the heatshields off and thermal bandages round the pipes (exhaust wrap) and ceramic coatings on the manifolds.
Looking at them photos you should count your blessings and consider yourself and girlfriend to be extremely lucky. Glad you both got out in time,now go buy another one