Not surprised you find it annoying! So, you're on to your second Ashcroft rebuilt box. What did they say when their first one went at 80K?Bearings, the first one was a cheap unknown rebuild which failed very quickly the following two have been Ashcroft rebuilds, but it is still the bearings that fail. Oil is changed every 24k, and always has been in my ownership. It has 340k on the clock, and I am currently doing 23-30k a year. A lot of that is company mileage however so even if the gearbox does go every couple of years, the mileage allowance more than covers the parts, it is just annoying I have to change it that often.
Presumably, if you're doing up to 30K miles per year there must be quite a few long, non stop journeys in there. I wonder if the gear box is running a bit hot?