I have had an issue with a set of threads on a rear crossmember that proved tricky. Admittedly this sounds very simple. The bolt that sheared did so when undoing it, so wasn't a case of brute force and ignorance. I have had vehicles for 35 years, and done a fair bit of work on them over the years, usually without issues, including fitting towbars.
Someone else did do this. A professional mechanic. he did say it was still a bit tight. Thanks for your enlightenment though. Just for the record, I may have had a few issues with a seemingly very simple task, but in my defence, I have undertaken 'safety critical' work on many vehicles over 35 years, but will stop now, as I've obviously not any idea what I am doing.