Hi, guys - sorry I've not posted for a while - life has been a wee bit manic. So - to update - OSD now has (almost) full use of his R leg, and about 60% of his R arm (although his arm causes nerve pain - presumably as they've been MIA for so long). No more catheter - he can go to the loo (with assistance there and back) - and best of all, from his point of view, he's no longer tube fed and is eating proper food!!
My main purpose in life now is keeping up a steady supply of Bournville giant chocolate buttons and Jaffa Cakes (he's still not allowed anything too 'chokey' - but melting chocolate changes his whole features - bliss - after so long with a tube up his nose!!)
I'm still unsure as to when he can come home - but at this rate, it won't be too long. (Trouble is, I'll have to get the ruddy vacuum and duster out!!) His speech is still a wee bit flakey, especially when physio have had him in the gym all morning and he's knackered - but it's coming on really well - and his swear words are as clear as a bell! (Strange, since he usually doesn't swear a lot - he has a range of devastating words which usually work much more effectively).
Fingers crossed, he'll be back before too long, posting on here for himself - thank you all for your good wishes - I imagine the real trouble begins when he sets foot across the doorstep. (I'll have to provide him with a little jingly bell to ring when he wants ' service'). Signing off for now, OSB xx