Given the amount of current carrying capacity of the main Becm feed cable and the type of connection used (Eyelet with M6 nut/washer), I have no doubts about voltage drop to the ECU, it will be no more than taking the feed straight from the battery unless the fusebox is badly corroded that the Becm is fed from via a 60 amp maxi fuse. If fog/spot lamps are fitted, together with the front heated screen, these supplies are via the Becm and the main supply cable. Can't understand why people think they need a total trailer (12S) requirement of 2 X 30A anyway. The actual current drawn will be around 7-8 amps for the fridge @ 12v and assuming that the caravan battery is partially charged another 10-15 Amps max, reducing as the battery charge level improves.
How many people have charged a battery at a constant 30 Amps for say 3-4 hours?? If the battery needed that amount of current constantly, it would definately be knackered and the plates shot.
As an alternative, the cable can be run from the battery, through the bulkhead, under the tread plates into the rear of the car. As stated, no need to run two separate feeds, just run one 4mm sq. Again, I repeat...the battery charge and fridge wires in the grey 12s cable are only 1.5 mm sq. EACH.
All the years I owned and towed with the P38 I never had any electrical problems with the 12S wiring and in all the cars I have fitted towbars and electrics, I have only ever use a 4mm sq. single supply to the fridge & battery charge relay. This supply was protected by a 30 single fuse and I have never had this fuse blow, even when I had forgotten to charge the caravan battery beforehand with a mains charger and it was virtually flat.