Light mayo is usually down to condensation, heavy is hgf.
More water use on short journeys indicates a cold leak like the inlet manifold. (What mine is suffering with - I might get round to fixing it soon!)
More on long journeys is a hot leak or a permant leak. Are all of your hoses in top order? You said you have had the expansion tank replaced, is that with the later updated design and new cap? Or is the cap the original one?
What is your normal commute? Does the engine get fully to temp? Do you give it the big one from cold? Do you use the dual carriage way/motorway within 1 minute of starting the car?
It is too easy to say HGF with these engine when it isn't.