You would have been better to come here before you spent any money. Not helpful I know!
Anyway, the guru on here for your car is
@wammers and if he can't work out what's wrong then you might as well scrap it because nobody else will!
Anyway, my tuppence for what it's worth is are you absolutely certain that the glow plugs are working.
Point 1,some are of questionable quality (I think beru are the best ones)
Point 2 are they actually getting power.
Without good glow on at least 3 consecutive cylinders it will struggle.
That said, once it's started it should be OK.
So, you have fuel at the injectors. That doesn't mean it is there at the right time and pressure. Number 4 injector is important as it tells the ecu the point of firing and it can fail but often its the wiring to number 4 can give issues.
Sounds to me like you've got a timing issue. It could be lack of compression but as it seems to have happened suddenly I'd guess this isn't the case.
As has already been said, you need some diagnostic on it to get it going. Without that it's going to be all guesswork.
Good luck and stick with this forum as there is no better way to resurrect a p38!