WhiskyLassie
Well-Known Member
Even flies don't touch mince and tatties"fumier"
Love it!!!!
French for a "dung heap"
Even flies don't touch mince and tatties"fumier"
Love it!!!!
French for a "dung heap"
So sorry mate! As you say, she is being manipulated.We've been married 55 years and apart for 10
It's my son trying to get the house off us, he's manipulating her
She was quite happy living in the big house we both bought for cash in 1985 and me in my bungalow.
It's not going to end well for either of us I'm afraid
Too late I'm afraid, divorce proceedings already in motion, she's going straight to courtSo sorry mate! As you say, she is being manipulated.
I thought as much from your first post. So typical, sadly.
Is there any chance at all that you can contact her, preferably in writing, saying that you know exactly what is going on and that you don't want it to end badly for her any more than for yourself? Try asking for her to go to mediation, minus the blinking son.
If it goes to court she will only end up with half of the house so she will end up living in a much worse place. Maybe if you can make her see that, she'll eventually agree to the divorce with things being left as they stand, if you are happy with that.
When my ex and I divorced we worked out a mutually satisfactory arrangement re finances based on how we had always done it, i.e. we paid into a joint account according to our incomes, for all joint expenses. Including the house. So when we got divorced we worked out the settlement based on exactly the same formula.
The judge asked to see us to discuss this, but we were both happy with it and declined his request. So we got the decree absolute but no official financial settlement. This is probaly very unusual. But it suited us fine and we went on working together for the next 20 years with no recriminations or threats of going back to court.
Again, so sorry mate, and best of luck!
I'm afraid that I would say it is never too late. You have nothing to lose by trying.Too late I'm afraid, divorce proceedings already in motion, she's going straight to court
I love the fact that you are eating green "trees"! despite Google translate giving you, "buy one get one free"!
Well "arbre" means "tree", or sometimes "axle" and it don't matter who put it in!!No it didnt I put that in
Well "arbre" means "tree", or sometimes "axle" and it don't matter who put it in!!
Panda's call it grub.Is there a name for the type of bamboo?
The call em skips in the trade. When the crank snaps the skip man takes it away. Rubbish is already inside.I know nowt about them, I can build an engine but will it last if the cranks are poopoo.
Heres the landy..........
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Yer need propper legal help from a legal peep who deals wiv devorse. They will know the typical reasonable settlement and what you can argue, fer what yer have to share. Where yer defence is bearing in mind wot yer both put in and wot levers change that. Devorse settlement is difficult to judge. Yours has some unusual cling ons wiv the dual property fing and length of time and wot fings happened during that time. Eye appreciate its daunting to approach a legal peep but its the best way. Yer need someone acting on your behalf to deal wiv this and to guide you.Too late I'm afraid, divorce proceedings already in motion, she's going straight to court
Eye need some sorcers for me plant pots. Eye has cut oot the pot shape in card to take to the garden chop. Need to be 30cm wide inside. Need to save water and catch wot runs frew me plant pots when it rains and when eye water them. Need about 40.