see this is the thing, you go on about the language then you use it yerself. do you really think that using *'s is any different from using the real letters?
anybody that knows what you mean will know what yer trying to say.
if they don't know what yer trying to say then it don't matter if you write b***h instead of bitch.
people that are offended by **** will just as easily be offended by t**t. we all know what it means, or are you going tell us, that substituting '*' for A,W,U,N,S,R,T,C, or any other letter that happens to be in a wurd in your naughty list is enought to make the wurd less offensive?