Course you cant, I wouldnt have bought from this guy in the first place. Flat out dodgy. If you phone a private seller always ask about "the car", never be specific. If they are a dealer trying to shirk their responsibilities and taxes you want nothing to do with them.Well I have given him plenty of chances to reply to me so yes its now a nice letter to hmrc and trading standards,(can you say you are not a trader when you advertise so many cars on ebay in a short space of time)
Strangely payments are made to his wife,so they must both be involved.