Sorry, I've just got to put another post up here!
That sir is exactly my point. The number 1 thing insurers tell you when you have an accident is not to admit responsibility. So this emotional old girl who's just been in an accident that she found very traumatic, and probably didn't even know what day of the week it was at that point, admits responsibility. You being the kind sir that you are used this admission to play the system and get a payout on her insurance - that is the way I and other members of this forum have read the situation.
Your poor wife-twisting things to suit your own ends..... Dear oh dear. The only actual way, dear Landyzone readers, to win with these nut jobs is to completely ignore them, and I really should know better, but just at least I'll get the satisfaction of knowing that my name is cleared after his last bit of bloodlust in trying to say that I took advantage of an elderly woman.......
I sat the old (75 ish) woman down in a cafe Nero, bought her a coffee, asked her if she had a friend who could come and take care of her, who promptly did and who gave me a lift to mine. At no point did I ask her, or cajole or talk about anything to do with the accident bar checking she was ok. The female friend was a solicitor (who whilst was giving me a lift heard the insurers call and me telling them them she was driving at 25, even though she was at 35 in a 30 zone). Later in the day of her own volition she admitted responsibility in her own home.
So what have you achieved grumpygel? You've showed yourself to be what you are. I cant imagine a more deluded, narcissist than you are. Need I say more. No.