To be exactly, I have no idea of where the relay is connected to, the instruction points to somewhere under the passenger seat, I don't think that is correct. The 13-pin socket is going to be connected to caravan.And I read the instruction's and those from @sierrafery . Admittedly they are not the best, but if you have it in hand and the car in front of you, it should be a bit self explanatory.
What split charge?
I think you are confusing yourself.
I am struggling.
Fit it as stated for a 13pin and the caravan/horsebox should match?
J