I know! That's why on my first post I pointed out that it was stupid lol.Call yourself an electrician Deasy
Painful though it maybe, least you weren't winching someone at the time.
I echo other comments, winch isolation, full vehicle isolation and individual battery isolation are all a must
Mine welded in the on postion, with my old setupre: the isolator:
400A continuous isn't necessarily what you need. that simply means the isolator can handle 400 amps continuously. It will be fine if you use it to isolate or connect when the winch isn't running.
But:
for the situation described above, it is the breaking capacity which matters, that is to say the maximum load that the isolator will disconnect. You need to find the maximum possible current that the winch can draw, and make sure that the isolator exceeds this by a reasonable amount, say 25%, if not more.
If the current draw of the winch exceeds the breaking capacity of the switch, then the contacts will simply weld themselves together when you try to isolate with the winch at full current.
The making capacity is largely irrelevant as it is unlikely that the winch would be set to run and full current and then the isolator turned on.