gemsdad - thanks for yuo advice and I have sent a message to that guy on ebay
I went to pick up 3 boxs now and they all were different to mine - by gearbox shaft has bigger/fewr splines, look at the pic above:
and here is transfer box in bits (if you always wondered what is inside there ... ):
Last 4 picture shows the part where it looks like the wierd noise is coming from. Everything inside the box looks fine though - no damage! Could it be the coupling??