The bottom of radiator should be brass so likely the boss was soldered on with a good fillet to strengthen joint
If not sure how to do it …
The high temperatures of brazing would melt the soldered fins into bottom,
Remove rad and lay flat
Clean up both parts with rotary wire brush in drill/...
Sounds like the oil feed to rocker shaft is same as 200tdi, via a machined flat on front cam bearing which pumps oil to rocker shaft, when i did my 200tdi in each rocker is 2 drillings that you can push standard size drill into ( can’t recall size) to ensure pathways clear.
Not a gasket expert...
Not good, hope it’s not as bad as it sounds, as Kermit said perhaps one of the springs off the 3/4 synchro popped off,, if you take the top cover you should be able to see if all 3 still in place
Did you take the box apart as part of the rebuild
https://www.johnrichardssurplus.co.uk/land-rover-intermediate-gear-219468.html
This is the part number from series 2 and 2a parts book and valid to suffix A
What gearbox and suffix is in your landy
https://www.sp-4x4.com/533080_p/533080.htm
Just pop round local stables and ask, then you can choose which one has best access and muck, they’re glad to get rid, we even have a tipper transit deliver fresh once a week but prefer the well rotted which was available within 5 mile