All Down to personal preference, what do you intend to use the truck for, if your planning on doing some lanes and possibly pay and play then go for the lift,
If you don't intend to get it dirty then I would stick with standard height, but you can still upgrade the suspension to a better make if you wanted,
2" is the most common lift, it dose take a little bit of getting use to it all depending how you drive.
Also to consider when lifting is extended brake lines not essential with a 2" lift but for piece of mind when off roading i would change them,
Another thing people do is remove the anti roll bars for better articulation, yes it effects the handeling again but you will soon get use to it,
Iv not noticed any major wear and tear because of the lift just keep an eye on your uj's and you will be fine
Hope that's of some help ??