look thicky !! before you start going on about ignorance and patronising, and all the ship you burble, you need to go and borrow the LZ dick and jane reading book, am not sure who has it just now but it might be mr caravan. then after you master the art of reading go back and read the actual question that was asked by my goodself.
then once you have done that perhaps you can answer why it is you feel the need to stick a egghost out the pto hole.
the reason i ask is yer answer wil help folk decide which advice would best suit you.
or are you one of those that are more concerned by looks and trying very hard to be different.
here this might help
Ego Boost
Problems of low self-esteem, which on the face of it may seem quite minor, can blight people's lives and make them lose out on major opportunities. They may lack the confidence to attend social functions, or to talk to the opposite sex, and may be held back at work. An extreme example is the condition known as social phobia, in which people go out of their way to avoid social gatherings. When they are forced to mix with people they suffer from the panic attack symptoms such as palpitations, sweating, dry mouth, and blushing. It is a problem worth tackling, since social phobics are around nineteen times more likely to abuse alcohol and drugs than others.
For minor situations whereby the individual's life is not totally blighted by this unfortunate affliction, hypnosis can be given that help make them feel good about themselves: that they feel calm, confident, and actually enjoy socialising. They are taught to shine at a particular occasion, such as a party or job interview, people can be hypnotised and then visualise the event, repeating to themselves that they feel comfortable and calm, and that they feel at ease with the world. These feelings will then re-emerge when they are in the actual situation. Self-hypnosis can also develop a person's confidence in the particular situation in which they feel limited. Trigger words can be used to change the way they feel about a situation. Physical symptoms such as minor blushing, sweating, or trembling can be helped through suggestion hypnosis and visualisation, and then gradually acclimatising them to the situation.
now look at the watch, thats it!!
just empty your mind, oh! ok! we'll skip that bit. your eyelids are becoming heavy and when you wake up you will no longer feel the need to cover your landy in chequerplate. just send a cheque to
slob therapy center
c/o landzone
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