I hate to be the bearer of bad news. I have spent nearly 2 years investigating this fault and changed everything standard that 'might' have cause it. I also have a Rovacom Lite diagnostic system that can view live data and that also showed no error codes. Now for the bad bit . . .if the fault clears on slight revving and if it only occurs when stopping when the engine is fully hot, it is very likely a faulty dual-mass flywheel. This is a poorly documented fault that only happens to the manual 2.5 DSE. The flywheel is manufactured in two parts and they are joined by a viscous type material that wears with time, resulting in free play between the two flywheel sections and 'wobble' on the crank position magnets, giving erratic data to the ECU. Blipping the throttle lightly stops the wobble. Land Rover seem to be deliberately keeping the problem very quiet, although a few dealers do know about it. A lot of manufacturers are now having problems with dual mass flywheels and some aftermarket companies have manufactured solid flywheel replacement kits (doesn't happen to the old type flywheels) - unfortunately I haven't found one that matches the P38. The other bad news is that the clutch should be replaced at the same time for technical reasons. Cost is high. Main dealer quoted me £1300+ VAT for the job. The parts are ERR5205 (Flywheel) £547.41 and STC50512 (Clutch) £196.41. The giveaway is your classic symptom of just touching the accelerator to clear it, which identifies this cause, if all else is well. One slight improvement can be made by lifting the tick-over speed from 750 to 800 but you need a Rovacom or similar to do that as it's an ECU adjustment. I know how frustrated you are feeling.