I'm a first time buyer and I'm looking at buying an HSE -either a 2003 or 04. I'm scared of ending up with a fussy vehicle that will cause more headache than enjoyment. I live in Eastern Canada and need a reliable winter ride, something that will last me the next 4 years minimum with an expected 30-40,000 miles a year of driving. The nearest dealer is 4 hours away so I have some obvious concerns. Am I crazy to put 35K into a HSE with 40-60K miles already on it or should I just go by a Toyota and forget my HSE adventure. I can live with the occasional problem but what am I really getting into here and what will I have left when I finally want to trade it?....I just need some good practical advice on what to avoid or look for. Please help!

Thanks everyone.