Not sure what the alternator output is on yours but I'd be guessing at least 120 amps.
So, let's imagine a start is 350 amps for 5 seconds, that's 0.1ah gone so even at idle speed, that should easily be replenished in about 1 minute or less.
Now, let's guess at 250 Watts for lighting, that's about 20amps.
Heater uses very little (fan) so let's guess another 5 amps.
Heated seats, again, not sure but I can't see it being more than 30 amps.
Let's chuck in another 20amps for other ancillaries and we end up with a total demand of 75amps.
So you see that even with everything on, the alternator should be feeding everything and still have plenty spare capacity to be charging the battery.
I believe you would be better to find out why it doesn't cope rather than messing about with dual battery setup.